Care and Love - like you like it yourself

 

11.  Treat each person with the bhakti and care as if the success or failure of your own spiritual life depends on this. Do not take into concern how they treat you. The manner in which you treat people is the same way you treat Guru and Krishna.

22.    Anytime that there is a problem in a relationship, you should first see it as your own fault. Even if others are to blame, you will only add to the problem by considering them to be at fault.

33.   You should treat every person with whom you come in contact with the same care as the person you love the most.

44. As we associate with others in our spiritual communities, we should do so in a mood that these are the people that I am living with and they will probably also be the people that I will leave this body with. 
      
     (Words of wisdom from HH Bhakti Tirtha Swami)